💜 On People Pleasing, Endings, and Emotional Dynamics
3 Ideas
I.
Attachments are messengers sent to deliver a lesson.
Once you master the lesson, you no longer need to take the test.
II.
Some relationships are meant to be a lesson.
Others are meant to be a chapter or a book.
III.
You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person.
What is meant for you can never be taken from you.
2 Quotes
I.
Reiki teacher Ashley Scully on endings:
“Me: But they were my best friend. Universe: Let it go. Me: Why? Universe: Because not everyone is meant to grow with you - some were only meant to meet the version you’ve already outgrown.”
II.
Author Sheleana Aiyana on people pleasing:
“When you betray your needs to keep someone around, your body starts to believe that love and self-abandonment belong together. Healing begins the moment you choose to honor yourself, even if that choice feels unfamiliar.
Self-abandonment trains you to expect love without safety. Choosing yourself rebuilds the link between your truth and your voice. That’s where real connection begins.”
1 Thing I’m Watching:
Artist Joann Bourgeois on Life
1 Song I’m Listening To:
Asia - Sofiane Pamart (Spotify)
1 Podcast I’m Listening To:
Accepting Life As It Is - Ram Dass (Spotify) (YouTube)
P.S. Made Me Giggle